It's hard.
Building a home business is downright hard.
Especially when you are doing it around a job or family
Or BOTH.
It's frustrating.
It can be backbreaking.
Confusing
It can be down right infuriating
And sometimes it thoroughly SUCKS.
Especially when we are going it alone
When we have no mentorship and we don't know
if we are at all on the right track.
But I gotta tell you...when we get into that place.
When we are tired and weary and frustrated and "overwhelmed"
THAT is when we are in the biggest danger zone of all.
The place where we can commit the biggest SIN that
exists in our profession....
That SI is trying to get others to join us in our sad state
just so we don't have to experience all these feelings ALONE.
So we gossip...
Or we post...
Or we make calls to complain...
And without even realizing what we are doing we become
like a CANCER coursing through the veins of an
organization
Wiping people out of the game as we insert the
very DOUBT that we are struggling with into others.
And then we sit and wonder WHY we can not move forward.
Why the very people that we so need attention from
seem
to be moving away.
Listen...
We are ALL human.
We all struggle.
We all hurt.
We all need a break from time to time.
But the first rule you must learn as a BUSINESS OWNER
is that you need to learn to deal with this WITHOUT infecting
others....especially the people closest to you like your team
members and colleagues.
And I'd be a liar if I told you that I let people who do
this stuff remain in my environment
Because I don't.
While some leaders may appease those that bring doubt and
negativity into their space and
group...
Encouraging them and hoping they stop infecting others...
Me...
I grab a scalpel and cut them out.
As fast as possible before the tumor grows and
the required surgery is much bigger or worse...
They make my business so ill... it dies.
I will not allow it.
I do not allow this of myself and I do not allow
this behavior in my arena in any shape or form.
And I hope you adopt this policy too...
First by holding yourself to the standard and then by
upholding it when deciding who you will do business with.
Why am I telling you this today?
Because I think if more people heard this message EARLY
in their career it would save them a world of
heartache and pain.
So I wanted to pass it along ...
From me to you.
It is SINFUL to insert doubt in other.
A crime.
Don't be the transgressor and don't be the recipient
and you will move much faster in this game.
I guarantee.
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It's all good.
I understand and wish you well.
I am out to give the gift of TRUTH to a
space
that has had a lack of it for a very long time.
And while sharing what I know to be MY truth about this business ...
I won't be delicate.
I will be direct and straight forward in ways that will make
some uncomfortable just as my mentor pushed me and
made me
THINK and grow out of my childish ways.
And today...
Many years later...
I am THANKFUL for that TRUTH that he gave me.
As it has served me well.
And now I am a good news merchant...
Sharing what is possible from the mountain tops so that
those that
choose this life can hear my song about:
A life of love
A life of freedom
And a life of
EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE.
Inserting doubt into others is a weak, weak habit
Practiced by those that choose to be dominated by others
and shudder in the shadows.
What I am doing is inviting you to come out into
THE LIGHT
And bathe in it.
SEE YOURSELF in all your magnificence
And give up the need to run with THE HERD.
If you want to do that.
Take my hand and
lets GO.
It's a beautiful day today.
We can change some lives together.
Starting with YOURS.
Diane