That Ego Sure Is Tricky...

I've been struggling.

I've been caught in a trap.

The trap of DIANE HOCHMAN.

Feeling like I need to live up to this big ideal that people other than me set forth back when I was speaking at all the events and on all the big webinars.

Feeling like I'm supposed to perform in a certain way.

Wear certain things...

Drive certain cars....

Live in certain houses...

Yada Yada.

The industry required it...

My ego bought into it and there I was...

Standing on a huge stage telling that story as my personal life fell apart.

And although I have always kept my income my view on all that stuff changed in a blink.

What good is any of that if you are not happy.

What good is any of that if you are not f.ree to be who you are.

Wearing a great big mask had become a way of life.

I knew for a long time that I had to take it off but my ego was petrified of what would happen if I stopped being DIANE HOCHMAN.

Would I become irrelevant?

Would anyone work with me?

I had built a career on being a guru of types and I no longer had a desire to perform like that any more.

And I no longer wanted to be a part of the never ending hype parade that I saw year in and year out.

I no longer wanted to sell stuff to people that I knew had no intention of even trying.

It just felt wrong.

So I just STOPPED.

And I went inside.

I focused on me and connecting to what truly moves me.

And I focused on how to give what I know about being free to those that want to be free too.

It's not what you think...

And that's the problem.

Most people have been so programmed that that don't even really know what freedom looks like.

And that's ok.

We're all on our own journey.

But if you think that freedom has to do with STUFF you are knocking on the wrong door.

Unfortunately most of us don't figure that out until we go through our STUFF stage.

They tell you success means stuff and you buy into it putting you onto a never ending hamster wheel of consumer behavior buying everything under the sun that we think will get us the STUFF that will make use be seen.

Ironically you get the stuff and wait to be seen and no one even looks.

Maybe for a day or two but then it's over and we're off chasing again.

And then God forbid you get to be a mini guru like I was you think you have to BE something that you never were or else your life will be over.

But what I found out was that my life was JUST BEGINNING.

And that's what I'll be sharing with you in the weeks ahead.

If you choose to stay that is.

And of course I'll be talking revenue...

The revenue is what gives us the freedom to figure out who we truly are.

So ya gotta have it.

It just doesn't need to be like they taught you.

You know...the part that has always felt WEIRD to you...

There's a reason why.

YOU WEREN'T WRONG..

Let me be the first to tell you

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Ok...I gotta run.

I've laid down the trap of DIANE HOCHMAN and opened up a whole new chapter.

How bout you?

You ready?

Then come along.


Signed...

The Marvelous Miss Di


P.S.  Tomorrow night is my BeClub mastermind.

And I have something incredibly profound to share.

If you're not it in hit me back and I'll explain how to get access.